How To Be Confident - 5 Habits That Kill Your Confidence Immediately

To take advantage of the Amazon Prime offer go to http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500. Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2uDyjTb Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Every single day, we do something that are fantastic for our confidence and we do others that aren't so good — they drag it down and destroy it. The problem is we can't always tell which of those is which. And that's why in this video, I want to show you five very common behaviors — some of which I bet you are doing — that are secretly destroying your confidence because if you can remove these from your life, it's dramatic how your self-esteem and your confidence will skyrocket. So the first one that I've had a very, very first hand experience with was staying in a situation that you really dislike. Now, it's obvious that you're not going to want to stay in a situation you dislike by definition but it actually destroys your self-esteem when you do that. And I realized this back in the day when I had my first job as a consultant. I didn't love it, it wasn't horrible but when I got up in the morning, I felt like I was faking it; I felt like I was putting on the suit pretending to care about something that I didn't really care about. Simultaneously, I found myself feeling less confident myself; I was starting to doubt myself. 0:24 Staying in a situation that you really dislike 2:20 Focusing intensely on practice 3:54 Belief that a certain person's approval will make you happy 4:58 Disqualifying yourself verbally before doing something 6:06 Saying the "I don't care" in order to be kind Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman